“We Don’t Have A Dog In That Hunt” and Other Fractured Fairy Tales

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Today I was involved in a very complicated technical discussion at work.  At issue was determining whether we were responsible for a problem that was cropping up regularly with one of our projects and which was subsequently affecting an important customer. 

As the Dog Scientists debated the conditions and parameters that seemed to describe the annoying phenomenon, I listened closely to the details.

Two aspects of the situation quickly became apparent to me. 

First, I had little to no idea what these guys and gals were talking about.  After all, I had difficulty helping my twelve-year-old Daughter (Daughter Number Two) with her “fun” math homework the other night.  I seem to remember giving her advice something along the lines of, “It’s probably better to check with your Mom.”

Second, whatever the real engineering problem at hand today was, it was clearly not due to anything even remotely associated with us.  That much was certain.

After all, I might be dumb, but I’m not stupid.

Thankfully, then, we came to the conclusion it was somebody else’s burden to solve, and we were in the clear.

And to cap off the collective conclusion of non-responsibility, our absolutely awesome project manager (who has bailed me out on countless occasions over the last fifteen months) declared, “We don’t have a dog in that hunt.”

“Yikes!”  I thought to myself.  “Something I actually know something about.  I can make a meaningful contribution to this discussion.  Finally.”

I then commenced to interject my interpretation regarding one of the finer points of Southern colloquialisms. 

“Look.  I feel I have to jump in here and make a correction.  You can’t say, ‘We don’t have a dog in that hunt.’  You can either say, ‘That dog won’t hunt’ or ‘We don’t have a dog in that fight,’ but you can’t mix them up like that.  After all, that would indicate we don’t seem to know what we’re talking about, you know?’

My comment was met by dead silence. 

Oh, well.  I tried.

You see, one of the (many) enduring burdens of my life is that even though I do not possess a Southern Accent or even remotely sound like I hail from below the Mason-Dixon, I did, in fact, spend my formative years in the South, which has (for better or worse) instilled in me something of its sensibility.  

In fact, just this week I was explaining to my new primary care physician, who had just moved here from New Orleans, the Danger Signs I recognized in that area of the country as a young adult and that led me to seeking an “out” before I was sucked into the Black Hole of Comfort there.

“What do you mean?” she asked.

“Well, for guys, it was football, nicotine, alcohol, and girls.  And not necessarily in that order.  The average guy in his mid-fifties already looked like he had one foot in the grave.”

“I know,” she responded.  “I definitely saw that there.”

“I guess they thought the short journey was worth the price.  But not for me.  I was determined to leave once I finished school,” I replied.

And leave I did.  

But by sheer happenstance and courtesy of the US Navy, I have spent a good portion of my adult professional life living once again in various locations throughout the South. 

So, I escaped initially but then I returned. 

“Well,” my doctor continued, “You look exactly what I’d imagined a ‘hip’ Southern California guy would look like — you’re wearing shorts and sandals, you look like you’re in shape, and you seem kind of relaxed.”

“Ha,” I thought.  “My family would become catatonic if they heard you describe me like that.”

“I try,” I said. 

And then I headed for the exit and waded into the afternoon Interstate commute home, feeling pretty good about myself.

I guess there’s no real point to this story, other than I realize now I made a fairly large linguistic mistake earlier today.  It turns out that the more I think about it, the better the newly concocted colloquialism sounds to me.

Because the older I get, I find I have fewer dogs involved in any sort of hunt, and for the most part the following accurately describes me today:  I don’t have a dog in most fights; I don’t have a dog that hunts; and, especially, I don’t have a dog in that hunt.

After all.  Look at him.

There's only room for one sheriff in this town.

I don’t fight, and i certainly don’t hunt.  But I do eat cat food and cat poop.

– Dad

Country Line Dancing: No

Country line dancing is not for me. I have tried it a few times now and each time, I think to myself, “Why on God’s green earth am I here?” And then I turn to my friends who are happily two-stepping away to some Taylor Swift monstrosity in their cowboy boots. I’m a city person. An urbanite. A skyscraper lover. One of the suits. Fast-paced. I don’t do Southern things even though I’m from the South technically. I will never be a Southerner. I do like whiskey, though. But that’s because I’m secretly an 60-year-old man and the owner of  Fortune 500 company, not because I’m a Southerner.

Does this bandana make me look fat?

“Does this bandanna make me look fat?”

I lived in Texas for three years and that was enough country for a lifetime. It was the type of small town that shut down for high school football games. Where cheerleaders outnumbered … everything. Where BBQ came first and vegetables came never.

Now, I did enjoy living in Texas. I was young enough to not know any better. I didn’t know that to the west of me lay a wondrous PromiseLand for the Chosen People (me) called California.

I thought I was done with Shania Twain and other country music once I got to California. I’m not sure how I became friends with these people who want to go line dancing every day like some sort of pretend hillbillies. I do appreciate these places’ emphasis on America and I think that it’s nice to see other types of dancing besides the elaborate mating rituals that happen on club dance floors.

There's only room for one sheriff in this town.

“There’s only room for one sheriff in this town.”

I was asked to dance at one point by a man who knew all of the dances really well. I tried to politely decline because I didn’t want to be responsible for ruining his night when I broke some bones in his feet but my friends “encouraged” me (read: shoved me) and so I went. Now, there were approximately three steps I had to memorize and you bet your asbuttless chaps I could not even master THAT. I am just not a dancer who can learn choreography. I don’t like to live life by the rules. It’s called originality, Mom.

There were a few times when I was attempting to dance alongside everyone else that I almost got a step or two right but during the rest of the night, I looked like I was either drunk or time had slowed down (but only for me) because I was constantly ten steps behind.

"I better get a treat for this."

“I better get a treat for this.”

At the end of the day, I’m glad I went. I was able to look like an idiot and get rid of that nagging piece of dignity that kept flapping around everywhere behind me. Plus, it gave me an excuse to dress up my dog for the purposes of this blog post. Even my dad agreed that my dog could be dressed up if it were for a higher purpose.

*me getting cowboy paraphernalia*

Dad: “You better not be dressing up that dog. He already looks stupid enough without any clothes on him.”

Me: “Dad, it’s for my blog post.”

Dad: “Oh… well, alright then.”

And, although Buddy did not necessarily enjoy his temporary position as Sheriff, I stuffed him with enough treats to make him forget the misery. And, let’s be real, he didn’t have to go through the real misery of line dancing. Consider yourself lucky, Sheriff.

– Daughter

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